How hard it is to control our tongue? Man it can be sooooo HARD. I mean we are living in a world where people feel like they can say anything they want. It is amazing to me how fast a hard situation can start simply because of words. Our words come from out heart so is it any wonder that the heart and mouth are connected in this teaching.
When I really sit down and thing about it our problem isnt our mouth it is our heart. It is a HEART issue. Our words can give life or death in any situation. If my words are constantly starting issues in multiple areas of my life I HAVE to look at my HEART and examine it. What is in my heart that needs to be changed so that I can speak life in all situations.
My heart can lead me wrong but if I give my heart to the Lord and say change the things that need to be changed then that makes a difference. I have also come to find that I have to do this over and over. I have to let the Lord examine my heart daily so that I can operate in Him. I want to have the heart of the Lord so much. I want to love like HE loves. Instead of being annoyed and short I want to speak with compassion and gentleness. I want His wisdom. How can I have those things if I refuse to let Him change my heart. When the Lord changes my heart it has to be evident in the words that come out of my mouth.
In the end my words are not the problem it is my heart. I need to be more forgiving of others words and realize it is a heart issue and pray for them. Instead of responding to harsh words with more harshness I want to respond how the Lord would have me respond. I want to represent Him. I dont need to win every conversation. Sometimes I just need to represent His patience. Sometimes I just need to respond in love and kindness. That will eventually put out all the fires. Spraying more fire in a forest fire never did anyone any good. It just destroys families, homes, and anyone or anything it its path.
I am so thankful I have the Lord who can change my reactions and responses. He can change my heart and help me be more like Him. The more I seek Him the more I will find Him. Lord be glorified in me and in my heart and words..
